Friday report · 11–17 Sep
Rafi, age 7
The week in one line
Coming soonFewer sibling fights, and homework started calmly on most days.
At a glance
This week against last week, from the same notes.
Sleep, night by night
Each row is one night: the bar runs from asleep to up. At 7, the range is 9–12 h.
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- Asleep at 9:30 pm on a typical school night, against 9:50 pm the week before (5 of 5 nights noted; 5 of 5 the week before).
- Slept 9.1–9.4 h on school nights, against 8.6–9.2 h the week before: about 0.5 h more (5 of 5 nights noted; 5 of 5 the week before).
- 2 of 2 weekend nights noted: too few to say more.
- At 7, Rafi needs 9–12 h of sleep. At least 9 h on all 5 school nights noted this week.
- School wake-up is 6:45 am, so 9 h means asleep by 9:45 pm.
What we noticed
From notes both parents can see. Each dot is a day.
Homework
Homework started without a fight on 3 of 4 days noted (Sun 13, Mon 14 and Tue 15), against 1 of 4 the week before.
Sibling fights
Sibling fights on 2 of 7 days noted (Sat 12 and Wed 16), against 4 of 7 the week before.
Outbursts
Outbursts on 1 of 7 days noted (Mon 14), against 3 of 7 the week before.
Screens at night
Phone or screen after lights-out on 0 of 7 nights noted, against 2 of 7 the week before.
HappenedNoted, didn’t happenNot noted
The 14-day try: Ten minutes alone with each child
Before
9 of 12 days
with a fight
12 days noted
During
3 of 9 days
with a fight
9 days noted
Running · day 10 of 14
- Sibling fights: 9 of 12 days noted before, 3 of 9 during.
Next week’s one thing
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When your child has aggressive outbursts or meltdowns
The first three days of the plan
- Day 1Observe without reactingStart a simple log: time, what happened right before, and how intense the outburst was.
- Day 2Practice connection firstIn the next tense moment, lead with calm presence and naming the feeling before addressing behavior.
- Day 3Build feeling vocabularyDuring a calm time, teach or review 3-5 feeling words together, using a book, game, or simple check-in.
Good things this week
Noted by a parent, with their days. Never a quote.
- a kind actMon 14 and Thu 17
- a good momentFri 11
- homework started calmlySun 13, Mon 14 and Tue 15
- helped at homeSat 12
- activeThu 17
Only for you
Your own practice this week. The other parent doesn’t see this.
Practice this week: 5 days · Sleep: Confident
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Rafi · 11–17 Sep
- School nights: asleep at 9:30 pm on a typical night (last week 9:50 pm); slept 9.1–9.4 h (last week 8.6–9.2 h).
- At 7, Rafi needs 9–12 h. School wake-up is 6:45 am, so 9 h means asleep by 9:45 pm.
- Sibling fights on 2 of 7 days noted (last week 4 of 7).
Counted by ParentMind from notes both parents can see. Days not noted are left out.
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