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At a glance
- Who it is for
- Parents of children aged 8–15
- Key takeaways
- Swap “How was school?” for a specific question.
- Side by side often works better than face to face.
- Listening without fixing keeps them talking.
Many children, especially as they get older, answer big questions with small words. It doesn’t always mean something is wrong — “How was your day?” is simply hard to answer after six hours of school.
Questions that are easier to answer
- What made you laugh today?
- Who did you sit with at lunch?
- What was the most boring part?
- Is there anything you’re looking forward to tomorrow?
Side by side
Many children talk more easily when they aren’t being looked at: in the car or rickshaw, cooking together, walking to the shop. Bedtime, in the quiet, is another moment when worries surface.
Listen first; the fixing can wait.
This article is general information, not medical advice. For health worries, talk to a doctor; if someone is in danger, contact your local emergency number.
