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At a glance
- Who it is for
- Families with children of any school age
- Key takeaways
- Write the rules together, so they belong to everyone.
- Keep it short: three or four rules.
- Grown-ups follow it too.
Arguments about screens often start because the rules live in one person’s head. A short agreement, written together and stuck on the fridge, puts them where everyone can see them.
How to write it
- Choose a calm time — not straight after an argument.
- Ask each person for one thing that matters to them.
- Write three or four rules, in plain words.
- Everyone signs, grown-ups included.
| When | What we agree |
|---|---|
| Meals | No phones at the table, for anyone. |
| Homework | Games after homework is done. |
| Bedtime | Phones charge outside the bedroom. |
| Weekends | One screen-free outing together. |
Rules everyone helped write are easier for everyone to keep.
When it slips
It will slip sometimes, for children and adults alike. A gentle reminder — “What did we agree?” — usually goes further than a punishment. After a month, sit down again and change what isn’t working.
This article is general information, not medical advice. For health worries, talk to a doctor; if someone is in danger, contact your local emergency number.
